Dating for big guys
I guess I agree with the previous poster and the only fat I can really tolerate and still find attractive is a little belly fat as long as it's minimal!
Maybe because I try to stay fit/toned myself, I feel that men should do the same to stay healthy.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My BF has gained 30 pounds, all fat, since we started dating, and it's pretty unattractive. He looks okay in clothes, but is constantly pulling his shirt down and trying to stretch it a little to cover his belly.
But, if you want to keep a woman around, you need to take a look at your lifestyle.
If you're somewhat overweight and active, you're probably fine.
Or fat knees with flab that hangs over the knee bend on the back of his legs.
Or double and triple chins with fat chipmonk cheeks. I'm sure there are many fellows who don't dig MY body type, and thats okay!
I would LOVE someone to join me on an hour run on the weekend. He is aware that he doesn't look or feel great, but he's not very self-motivated, so he's struggling to make changes.